Dear Ralph,
Practice these big balloon breaths when you are very calm so you can use them when you are feeling nervous:
1. Breathe in through your nose for three seconds so your belly slowly fills up like a balloon.
2. Hold your breath for three seconds.
3. Breathe out through your mouth for three seconds so your belly loses air like a balloon.
Dear (a very tired) Ralph,
It might be helpful to listen to ocean sounds when you are having trouble falling back asleep at night. Slow, whooshing sounds are very peaceful- almost like they're telling your body not to worry. Works like a charm for me!